Why Lie

I think being your self is the best way to go about things one online. Why lie online. If you lie you aren't just lying to friends and family but also to your self. Everyone is different and has something to show and give about them. 

Giver

In The Giver, it looks like you cant chooses anything. The Elder chooses who you get paired with, they give you a job, and you cant have your own kid. You can appeal but its hardly going to make a difference. Rules are rules.